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ENDING YOUR ADDICTION TO PORNOGRAPHY


The Pornography industry ranks among the world most consumed products. The porn industry is thriving because it’s product is an addictive one just like drug and alcohol, those who have tasted it just once would want to taste it again and again until they lose control of themselves.

Addiction to porn is a serious issue because one who is addicted loses touch with what true love is or what true human relationship entails. He or she will lose interest in sex or in his partner. Some husbands are no longer caring or don’t desire sex again with their partner all because porn has corrupted their mind.

Porn is an enemy and now it’s time for you to end your addiction to it. Share this article so that people who are addicted may find help.

ENDING YOUR ADDICTION TO PORN

1. ACCEPT,
that you are addicted to pornography,
that you have sinned against God,
that you have defiled the temple of the Holy Spirit which is your body, that you are addicted and you need to be freed,

Humble yourself before God so that your life will be transformed and made porn free.

2. DECIDE
In your heart that you want to end your addiction to pornography, in your heart that you want to be free,
In your heart that you want to experience true love,
in your heart that you want to live a porn free life,

Porn is anti social, it makes addict repulsive towards people,
Porn is anti love, it makes addict unable to love someone truly rather porn replaces that love,
Porn is anti productive, it makes addict crave for nothing except more pleasure, it makes addict waste their money in buying porn often without proper reasoning.

3. BE MORE SPIRITUAL,
Pornography is of the devil, it’s not just physical it’s actually spiritual. Their is more to it than what you see on screen. It’s demonic, there are one thousand and one demon following any pornographic material released ready to mingle with any who invites it. A) PRAY MORE
Pray against the spirit of porn. Pray for liberation from the chains of darkness. Be a person of prayer like Jesus who prayed always. B)STUDY GOD’S WORD
Know what God says about sexual immorality. Fill your mind with God’s word and not unclean images. C)BE MORE ACTIVE IN CHURCH,
Be serious in your faith so that what your body and soul speaks about is God, God and not pleasure. D). HAVE A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD,
Going to Church regularly is not the same as knowing God personally. Who is Jesus to you? Know God on a personal level, be close to him. HE is your Father, your Master, your Redeemer. Your Lord and your Saviour.

4. IDENTIFY YOUR TRIGGERS.
Find out what pushes you to porn. Some take to porn as a way of relieving stress, some do it out of anxiety, depression or frustration. Some also take to porn when they are happy and are seeking to express their happiness. Erotic or seductive movies is also a factor. Then also some that are triggered by the sight of a beautiful or sexy lady. Idleness is very much a reason a lot of youth engage in it. What is triggers yours.

5. WORK ON YOUR TRIGGERS.
Seek help if you are suffering from depression, anxiety or stress. You need to uproot it from it’s base. Stop watching erotic or seductive movies, movies such as fifty shades of gray, Game of thrones and the likes with high erotic content is not good for you. Read self help book about fighting porn addiction. Guard your eyes, it is the gateway to your soul. Stop admiring seductive ladies they are agents of darkness. Get busy, find a job, an idle mind is the devil’s workshop. Stop listening to bad secular songs that promotes sexual impurity. Stop tainting your mind, your soul.

6. WORK ON DEVICES.
Destroy all your porn videos, unsubscribe from all pornographic websites. Delete porn or bad Tv channels that shows erotic or porn movies. Clear out from your computer of all erotic pictures and movies or websites. Install a software that stops you from accessing pornographic websites (example covenant eyes). Put more godly things in your system, Bible, Holy pictures, Christian songs and messages. On your phone do the same. Clear out negative stuffs. Buy a smaller phone with no browsing or camera function and be using it for the time being till you are free and then you can go back to your smartphone.

7. WORK ON YOUR SELF
When you are addicted to porn, you develop a bad impulse control. You are no longer in control of your impulse. You just keep watching it because you don’t know life outside of it. You need to work on yourself. Self control you need to develop it, so that you can say no to porn anytime it pops up. Do you have a vision, a goal? Is pornography helping you achieve it? Are you focused in life. Work on yourself, work on your dreams. Be addicted to your dreams not to porn. Try to imbibe these virtues; discipline, integrity, hardwork, honesty and determination.

8. SEEK HELP
Go for counselling, porn actually thrives in secrecy. Tell someone before it destroys your life. Tell your Pastor to help you overcome your addiction. Do you have a trusted friend tell him/her to help you. Join groups that help people addicted to porn, they will help you. Join websites that helps porn addict overcome their addiction.

9. BE DISCiPLINED, BE DETERMINED
Don’t down play your addiction it’s a very serious thing. So many spouses have left their partner because they found out they were addicted to porn. Porn is cheating. Don’t let it destroy your marriage or your life. Be determined, if you fall again rise, keep rising until you no longer fall.

10. KEEP FIGHTING, KEEP PRAYING.
Don’t give up, don’t quit until you win.

I hope this will help you overcome your porn addiction. Remember porn is not a boy thing women are also addicted. So if you are a lady same goes to you fight until you win.

If you need help you can send me a message via email at marceljekwu@gmail.com

leave your comments or suggestions below.

I love you
Remain blessed
mcn

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